Be open and honest if your child is reluctant to attend school. Contact the school if your child is regularly seeking to stay home. Working together is the best way to resolve school avoidance

It is essential to address the issue promptly to understand the underlying reasons and provide necessary support. 

Start by having an open and non-judgmental conversation with your child. Ask them about their feelings, concerns, or any challenges they may be facing related to school. Ask open-ended questions in a space where they feel comfortable. 

Examples of conversation openers include:

• Tell me about how you’ve been feeling lately.
• What are some things you don’t like about being at school?
• You’ve said you feel _______. Can you tell me what that feels like?
• Tell me when you feel happy at school? What do you like to do?
• If you could change two things about school what would they be? 

Actively listen to your child's concerns and feelings. It's important to understand their perspective and validate their emotions. Avoid being dismissive or judgmental, and let them know you are there to support them. Move to more specific questions like 

• Is there a specific incident that has made you feel this way with someone at school?
• Is school-work upsetting you?

Make a plan with your child to talk to the school. You can seek advice free from NSW ParentLine 1300 1300 52.